Olivia understands the concept--and even went a couple days without an accident, but we are still trying to master the dreaded number two. Dun. Dun. Dun.
She's just too impatient when it comes to number two. We read books. Sing songs in the bathroom and she still gets gun shy.
The potty training manual says--"stay positive don't scold" but when Olivia told us she had to go "caca" and Charm City Daddy sat her down on the potty and she commenced to prancing and pooping all over the bathroom (diarrhea cha cha cha)--we lost it.
I was amidst the post-bath routine with Lucas in another room when I heard a big SPLAT! "That can't be good," I thought. I slowly peeked in--afraid of what I might see. It looked like a crime scene, people. There she was sitting on the potty at moment in time, of course with a very fitting "oh, shit" look on her face. I gagged--then we lost it.
And that was on Charm City Daddy's Birthday! Happy Birthday daddy!
Anyway..I'll wrap up this experience with a few lessons learned as well as gear that helped us out.
- Stock up on undies. I started with just 5 pair, but later went to town in Walmart and bought at least 30 more. I bought ten Dora, Disney Princess ones(added incentives--"don't pee on Dora!")--and the rest were Hanes, FOTL generic. I haven't used them all yet--we do laundry quite often--especially when bodily fluids are involved. I have extras everywhere--diaper bag, car, grandma's house.
- Portable Potty. At the suggestion of a friend, I got the Pottete Portable on the go potty. It has great reviews and I love it's versatility and it's small enough to fit in the diaper bag or keep in the car. (and get additional liners!)
- Seat Liners. For the public potties--these liners are adhesive and worth and peace of mind. I keep these in the diaper bag.
- Carseat Saver- Piddle Pad. Yes! Many swear by carseat covers for this reason alone.. We haven't had any accidents yet but better safe than sorry.
- Constant reminding and nagging--not asking worked well for us.
- Positive reinforcement DOES work. Olivia loves saying "I so pwoud of you" all the time now.
- O's reward was a single gummi bear or sing fruit snack for every successful droplet in the pot. It's quick, tasty--and unlike the popsicles her daddy wanted to give her, don't get messy--take forever to eat or contain water.
- Have old rags--in our case gym towels--mop, and cleaning supplies on standby.
- Consider rolling up your rugs if you can--or staying in rooms that have no floor coverings during the training period.
- I sat Olivia down with my laptop on Day 2 and we went through all the YouTube videos I could find about potty training for kids--singing her songs--watching cartoons talk about it--seeing other kids do it. And I think it helped.
What worked for you Mamas?
*I was not and have never been compensated (in any way) for my baby gear suggestions on this blog.*